Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Finding and Following Your Passion

"Passion is a state of love and hunger"
                                                                        Gregg Levoy
Connecting and re-connecting with our passion is the hardest and most rewarding work of our lifetime.  
In fact I would argue it is the work we came here to do.

It is the calling of passion that propels us to seek out the best in life, and that sustains us during the difficulties we inevitably encounter in finding our way.

Callings may last a lifetime, or may need to be redefined as we mature.   
What is Calling You Forward At This Time in Life
is the seminar topic for our upcoming
Women's Winter Workshop 
February 27th - March 3rd in Boca Grande, Florida.

The retreat will be held at the Boca Grande Beach Club on Gasparilla Island.  This waterfront locale affords us a private sanctuary to practice gentle/restorative Yoga, share delicious/healthy meals and explore the daily seminar topics in our own way.  

Passion connects us with presence, enthusiasm and focus, yet does not require talent, proclivity, strength or expertise.  

Come thaw out with us in Boca Grande!
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Join us to fine-tune your calling and recharge your spirit.

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Deeper Listening

When we acknowledge that desire is a natural by-product of being alive it allows us to view our yearnings in the same light as hunger or the need for sleep.
So maintaining peace of mind will require that we recognize what is/isn't working for us on a mental and emotional level, just as noticing which foods do/don't agree with us will benefit our physical well-being.
This awareness allows us to throw out the idea that engaging in a conversation with your desires is a selfish indulgence, and help to cultivate the habit of listening to our deeper selves. 

If you'd like an exercise to kick start the process, try this….

1. Think about how we are designed to receive unconscious information through  
-  a recent dream
-  a song or thought that keeps playing in your head
-  a feeling that pops up during yoga or meditation
-  a physical ache or pain for no apparent reason

2. Now give yourself a block of uninterrupted time to write an honest letter to a close friend.  In this letter you analyze what that dream or recurring song might be saying about your current state.
For instance, I have recently been having dreams about dogs…not big scary ones, but friendly small dogs that create a feeling of sweetness to my dream.  Now I could assume this means I should get a dog (which may be true) or I might also discern that it's time to allow more "sweetness" into my life in a variety of forms.   

3. While your unconscious messages may not be as pleasant as this example, try to state your interpretation in a positive way.
When we do this "I lost my wallet in the dream" can become "I was separated from my money, which led me to search out other form of support".  Re-framing your interpretation may require reading your letter many times.  No problem, as this often leads to deeper insights. 

4. As you do this pay particular attention to 
-  how your body is feeling
-  what pops into your awareness as you read/revise
-  emotions that surface, no matter how surprising
   and include a note about these reactions to your letter.

5. When you feel you have come to an illuminating interpretation of your dream, recurring song, etc. I recommend you hang or post your final draft somewhere where you will see it daily.  

As you may have guessed, this is a letter to your closest friend: you. Reread it often, let the message percolate and, most importantly, take some positive action based upon this new information.

Monday, October 27, 2014

What's Calling You Forward?

I just sent out a November Newsletter with more information about our Women's Winter Workshop content and my guest speaker, Anne Bonney.  You will also find several other articles that may inspire you to become the hero of your own story.  

When the concept for this retreat was forming in September of this year, I decided that the seminar portion of our retreat would focus on listening and responding to our callings, both large and small.  

Since then, as is often the case, every time I click on a new link, have a spontaneous conversation, or turn on the TV I encounter yet another reference to this topic.


One such serendipitous encounter took place a few weeks ago when I heard Elizabeth Gilbert on Super Soul Sunday.   She was speaking to the fact that there are no heroic journey stories (ala Joseph Campbell) that depict women as the hero of their own quest.  Maybe it's time we write some.

To craft a new story for ourselves requires that we quiet down and become more present.  Like many of you, this is a constant dance for me, and to do so we need time, space and support.

So consider joining us for four nights and five days to renew body, mind, spirit AND direction as 2015 unfolds.  At this writing the retreat is filling quickly, so please register via the pulldown menu in the sidebar->  
If you have any questions you can email or call me anytime.  

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Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Fall Equinox Beach Walk

  Standing in the water…low tide at Nauset Beach  

I haven't paid much attention to the exact date of the Fall Equinox this year, so was pleased to know after a long walk in the waters of Nauset Beach that today, September 23rd, was the day.  

I could feel it.  The warm water underfoot and the bright sun overhead were sandwiched between a dry, 70 degree breeze.  With daylight and darkness being equal today it marks a time of balance, and historically is a time to rest after the active days of summer that culminate in harvest.  

It is interesting then that these bridge seasons are also a time when we can feel a physical and emotional imbalance.  

Vata, one of the three ayurvedic energies (doshas) believed to circulate in the body and govern physiological activity, governs movement in the body, the nervous system and elimination.  Vata literally means wind, and as the fall season rolls on it can exercise great influence over the other doshas: Pitta (fire) and Kapha (water).  
Too much wind can simply blow you off course.   
Too much wind can feel like…
 over thinking, hypervigilance, clumsiness, stiffness, dryness and digestive disruptions.

You can take a quick quiz on Depak Chopra's site to see what your predominant dosha might be. 

So take a page from our ancestors, and if you notice these imbalances try slowing down, getting back on a regular schedule for sleeping and eating, keep warm and integrate heavier spices into your life such as basil, cinnamon, citrus, cloves and sage.

Lastly this is also a time to look back, not only on the seasons past but on our lives.  What do we want to continue, and what are we ready to let go of? 

As you consider these questions I'll share a quote that has been resonating with me this week:
"May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears."
Nelson Mandela 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Let's Get Inspired

I called my latest newsletter the GOOD NEWSletter to highlight a few things that have inspired me recently.  
If you did not receive it, just click here and put Newsletter in the subject line.  Then prepare to be inspired!

Here is a bonus video that I did not include in the newsletter...

There Is Still Time 
is about a Brazilian social experiment involving parents and their children.  Among other things it illustrates how we can become cynical about the future when we intellectualize.  
When we personalize, however, our hearts open, and perhaps our vision of what is possible expands along with it. 

Just click here to view the video. 
It is best viewed full screen so subtitles can be easily read. 

Friday, September 20, 2013

When Women Awaken, Mountains Move

A W A K E N   A W A K E N   A W A K E N   A W A K E N

When Women Awaken, Mountains Move Chinese Proverb

Nadi  Sodhana or Alternate Nostril Breath is a great way to start to open your central channel.  We’ll be practicing this during the Women’s Workshop, Cultivating Your Intuition, Creativity and Yoga Practice, before our gentle/active morning yoga sessions to enhance connection to our intuition.
Try this in conjunction with yoga, meditation or anytime during the day when you want to ground, tap into your reserves of balanced energy, and go inward.

Give It A Go...

1. Close the right nostril with your right thumb and inhale through the left nostril. Do this to the count of four seconds.
2. Now close the left nostril with your right ring finger, and at the same time remove your thumb from the right nostril.  Exhale through this nostril.      Do this to the count of eight seconds. This completes a half round.

3. Now Inhale through the right nostril to the count of four secondsClose the right nostril with your right thumb, and exhale through the left nostril to the count of eight seconds. This completes one full round.

Start by doing three rounds, adding one per week up to seven rounds.
Alternate nostril breathing should not be practiced if you have a cold or if your nasal passages are blocked in any way. Forced breathing through the nose may lead to complications. In pranayama it is important to follow this rule: under no circumstances should anything be forced. If you use the nostrils for breath control they must be unobstructed. If they are not, you must practice throat breathing.

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Saturday, August 24, 2013

Yoga and Intuition

I don’t think most of us would answer “the brain” when asked where intuition dwells.  We would likely place a hand on our heart, our solar plexus, or our belly to indicate that instinct is about a body connection.

As women we are strongly connected to the body through our monthly cycle, childbirth, our primal tend/befriend instincts, and later through the transformation of menopause. 

Interestingly enough we are also encouraged to be more disconnected from our bodies through media messages, and the urging of our culture to compare ourselves to each other and to societal stereotypes. 

We see this shift in young girls.  Up to around 9 years of age we will typically experience and express ourselves openly through the body.  As we near puberty and beyond we will more often modify our impressions/expressions of ourselves (and our bodies) based upon how we think others will perceive us. 

With the addition of this filter our experience of ourselves shifts away from feeling/acting (a body model) to thinking/comparing (a brain model).

Taking ourselves to the next upgrade our health, career, relationships or sense of self…requires that we work to reverse the mind/body split.  By integrating our analytical intelligence AND the deep aptitude of our physical selves (that I call body wit) we really have the opportunity to be quite powerful.

Another word for this body wisdom is INTUITION.  Whether you believe that our intuition is generated internally or externally, as I mentioned earlier we sense that the receptor and repository of this intuitive information lies in the flesh.

The link between yoga and intuition is fairly simple. Yoga, or more specifically slow yogic breathing, allows us to quiet the mind as we awaken the body through a sequence of postures. 

I emphasize the slowing down of the breath because it’s ability to quiet the chattering brain…during our yoga practice or at any time…is pivotal to receiving information from the deep intelligence of the body while still keeping the brain engaged.

They say that the average person is 7 heads tall.  That’s a great visual to have as we consider how we usually go about solving problems.  Perhaps it will help us consider enlisting our entire being to craft the health, career or life that we really want.

When we cultivate our yoga practice we cultivate our intuitive connection.  When we cultivate our intuitive connection we start making better decisions.  
Become your own best advisor!